Sux Doesn't It?...Maybe Not

Why in the world would you think it would last? Why do you think that one day you'll be married and have children and live in a white house with a picket fence? It won't last. But I'll tell you why you do it, it's becoz of that fluffy feeling, it's because of that feeling of being wanted. It's the feeling of Love.

Teenagers now as young as 13 I must say, think they have fallen in love with that someone you meet in school. They hold hands, they go out, they smile in each others company, they feel happy. But it won't last, this crush will just lead to pain and sorrow. You think you'll be with him or her forever? No, a relationship like this, like this of a low love level will be not last. Adults of an older age date and fall in love because of one thing. Marriage. Adults date and fall in love to be with that spouse as long as they live. To live and have children together. We teenagers of this young age don't plan on having a house or even considering kids. Our furtheset plans: the mall and maybe a movie. "Yeah, that'll be perfect."

So, what is the point in all of this. We're too young, it won't last. So why do we even consider it? It'll just end in sorrow. Nothing more to say: IT WON'T LAST!

BUT, young we are, we can't help ourselves can we? We need the feeling of love to run through our veins we need that little touch of somebody else that makes us happy. So, even though we know it will end up in a mess, we try and get a "more than a friend" anyway don't we? Yes, we do. Teenagers don't consider marriage or children. All they want is that someone to be with. To go to the mall with, to go shopping with, to look cool in front of thier friends.

Sigh, sadly to say it is somewhat true. Boys are the criminals. Boys think having a "GF" as they say is so damn cool. Disgusting it is, being with someone special is not about the other people. It's about you and who you are with in this relationship. You should't care that your friends say she's so ugly. You shouldn't care your friends think your cool. You shouldn't care at all.

Being with that special someone if you consider him/her special, is something not everyone has felt. I personally haven't felt it. But it's good isn't it? One can imagine that feeling, hands intertwined, smiling and laughing throught the day. You feel happy, you feel uplifted don't you? It's great. So don't think your relationship is based on the coolness or based on your friends POV, it's all based on you and your spouse. We, the ones that talk mean nothing to your realtionship. We are nothing.

This is just my POV and crap that i write. I like doing this kind of thing. So, remember. It will not last. No matter how many times you say: I love you. No matter the amount of times you send a present, no matter the times you send an sms. It will not last. But, like I said, the feeling is great. So bare this in mind, even though you know it will not last, just make what you have the best. So when it really DOES come to an end, you'll say: That was the best."