S2upid Cupid

Valentine's day is over, it went by like another day for me. And thats exactly what I wanted. I find valentine's day as waste of a holiday, a waste of celebration, I find that valentine's day is crap. Pure crap. I think father's and mother's day is exactly like that too. You know what? I think the people at Hallmark all sat down and said, "We need something to boost our business. So let's make a holiday where everybody buys mushy and touchy-felling cards from us and make millions. Think about it everybody in the world will celebrate this holiday....." and it worked didn't it? Most of use fell into this spell, into this hypnosis of father's , mother's, and valentine's day.....

But, even though this holiday(valentine's day), is such a materialistik holiday, people still DO celebrate it. Sigh. I 'sigh' in defeat, what happend? Why have you all fallen.

Valentine's day people are happy, but the ones who are meant to be happy, the ones that WERE happy become sad when their expectations are not met....ARE YOU ALL MAD!? You were happy, you held hands, you laughed and smiled and joked. And suddenly this meaningless holiday comes by and your spouse doesn't give you that pearl necklace you always wanted, and POOF! you relationship ends up in smoke?? PEOPLE! think think think, if it weren't for this holiday would you be on you bed crying the tears from your eyes, tissue on the sheets, journal filled with harsh words speaking of curses and accusations?

The relationship you have is worth more than a materialistik holiday, it is worth more than the pearl necklace you hope for. It's far more valuble.

But if you were to celebrate it, if you were to indulge in this day, what would you get her? what would you get him?

Many find gifts, extravagents ones, one with a price tag so large, one that will kill the bank. Others find flowers, petals with colour, a scent to match.
But I find the best is something sentimenatal, something that has actual meaning, something that once seen will touch the heart.
A rose and a poem is a classic, but I think it will work out well?

So, the next valentine's day, don't fret and whine when you don't get you necklace, but treat it as jsut another day, another happy and joyous day with the one you chose to be with. But if you DO get somehting appreciate it, cherish the moment and the item.

Valentine's Day might be materialistik and makes you spend you money. But if done well, if celebrated just the right amount. Not too much, but just the right amount, a small sentimental gift. I think it will do wonders.

And this once again is JUST my POV, I haven't had experiences for myself. Cupid hasn't shot his arrow for me yet.

Sux Doesn't It?...Maybe Not

Why in the world would you think it would last? Why do you think that one day you'll be married and have children and live in a white house with a picket fence? It won't last. But I'll tell you why you do it, it's becoz of that fluffy feeling, it's because of that feeling of being wanted. It's the feeling of Love.

Teenagers now as young as 13 I must say, think they have fallen in love with that someone you meet in school. They hold hands, they go out, they smile in each others company, they feel happy. But it won't last, this crush will just lead to pain and sorrow. You think you'll be with him or her forever? No, a relationship like this, like this of a low love level will be not last. Adults of an older age date and fall in love because of one thing. Marriage. Adults date and fall in love to be with that spouse as long as they live. To live and have children together. We teenagers of this young age don't plan on having a house or even considering kids. Our furtheset plans: the mall and maybe a movie. "Yeah, that'll be perfect."

So, what is the point in all of this. We're too young, it won't last. So why do we even consider it? It'll just end in sorrow. Nothing more to say: IT WON'T LAST!

BUT, young we are, we can't help ourselves can we? We need the feeling of love to run through our veins we need that little touch of somebody else that makes us happy. So, even though we know it will end up in a mess, we try and get a "more than a friend" anyway don't we? Yes, we do. Teenagers don't consider marriage or children. All they want is that someone to be with. To go to the mall with, to go shopping with, to look cool in front of thier friends.

Sigh, sadly to say it is somewhat true. Boys are the criminals. Boys think having a "GF" as they say is so damn cool. Disgusting it is, being with someone special is not about the other people. It's about you and who you are with in this relationship. You should't care that your friends say she's so ugly. You shouldn't care your friends think your cool. You shouldn't care at all.

Being with that special someone if you consider him/her special, is something not everyone has felt. I personally haven't felt it. But it's good isn't it? One can imagine that feeling, hands intertwined, smiling and laughing throught the day. You feel happy, you feel uplifted don't you? It's great. So don't think your relationship is based on the coolness or based on your friends POV, it's all based on you and your spouse. We, the ones that talk mean nothing to your realtionship. We are nothing.

This is just my POV and crap that i write. I like doing this kind of thing. So, remember. It will not last. No matter how many times you say: I love you. No matter the amount of times you send a present, no matter the times you send an sms. It will not last. But, like I said, the feeling is great. So bare this in mind, even though you know it will not last, just make what you have the best. So when it really DOES come to an end, you'll say: That was the best."